You are valuable and worthy of Love…
Sometimes people just won’t love you the way you want them to. It does not mean there is something within you to fix. You are valuable and worthy of Love. The only next step is acceptance and movement toward those who love you freely.
A lot of times people blame themselves because they don’t feel loved the way they want to by their significant other. It may not even be their fault at all.
Although we are responsible to love ourselves and others, we are not responsible for those others who just can’t seem to be able to love us. Some people are just too broken. They try to love but just end up being sarcastic or unable to communicate the way they should. People have so many scars and wounds by the time they get older.
If they haven’t learned, or been able to forgive and forget their past relationship issues, they are just the walking wounded waiting to pounce on an innocent victim.
They may appear to be normal and happy, but just wait until something goes wrong and they are not in complete control. That is how you find out what people are really made of. See how they handle stress, and problem situations. It doesn’t usually take much to push the anger button on these kind of people. Most of the time you don’t even know you are doing it either. They are often a ticking time bomb waiting for you to get close to, or slightly push that little button that sets them into a flying rage. Of coarse – it is always your fault though, no matter what — right?
I’ve lived with this for so many years, I have to admit that by my nurturing nature, I actually have attracted this kind of people into my life. They seem to see the “just kick me” sign from a mile away. Meanwhile, I just keep wondering why people are so angry all the time. I don’t know why they just can’t be responsible for themselves, and let go of the past. Or God forbid, admit that they had a little bit to do with the past problems themselves. That would surly be unthinkable to admit that any part of an issue was their fault, or their instigation.
So if you are involved with someone who just doesn’t get you, or isn’t able to give you love, you are definitely not alone. The question is – how long are you going to let someone else blame you for their own insecurities and disfunction?
The best thing to do is to admit that they are unable to give you the love you want and look for someone else who can fulfill your needs and desires. Or other ways to fulfill yourself, like practicing your favorite hobbies, or being creative in some way. That is what the saying means when it says “The only next step is acceptance and movement toward those who love you freely.”
Don’t accept someone else’s short comings by staying in a hurtful situation and feeling unloved. There are many ways to get positive people and positive vibrations into your life…
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