Tag Archive | suffering

What hurt you…

If you don’t heal what hurt you, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you. ~ Unknown

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Hurt people hurt people.

So many people are broken in so many ways. You may not even be aware of your pain “triggers” until you accidentally go off on a friend or loved one who just happens to say the wrong thing to you, triggering a past but still open wound.

Healing and forgiving others is something that needs to be done by all, in order to get on with your life

Of coarse, healing is a part of everyone’s life. No one is exempt from having their feelings hurt. Not if they are human at least. And some wounds go so much deeper than just surface hurt feelings.

But past pain just keeps you suffering long after the hurt was done.

Don’t give past victimizer’s the satisfaction of an ongoing pain.

Be as free as you can and don’t bleed on the innocent people in your current life.

Your past is not their fault.

They are not the ones that CUT you.

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Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!


Do what you LOVE.

Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!


Live – Laugh – Love


Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…


Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

Immunity…

When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. ~Miguel Ruiz

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Learn to be strong in your own opinions and self worth and the things that others do and say won’t effect you near as much.

You won’t be subject to needless suffering because of the opinions and actions of others.

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

Decisions…

Decisions…

You have been guided to make a decision.  You have gone

about it with reflection and prayer and this is the wisdom,

you do not look back.  Under no circumstances do you look

back!  You step fully into the decision, absolutely fully, you

do not look back.  Because to look back is where you

become ill.  This is where you engage suffering, you start

to say, “What have I done?  Maybe it was right, maybe it was

wrong,” now you ae fragmenting yourself.  Now you are

shattering and running back and forth over this bridge trying

to have both ways simultaneously, and now both worlds in

you will fall apart because you cannot have both worlds.

Now you are living in a world of distrust, completely, instead

of in a world of faith and congruence.  You are living in a

world where you trust nothing at all.

~Carolyn Myss

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Despite everything…

Despite everything…

 

You’re so hard on yourself.

Take a moment.

Sit back.

Marvel at your life:

     at the grief that softened you,

     at the heartache that wisened you,

     at the suffering that strengthened you.

Despite everything,

you still grow.

Be proud

of this.

~author unknown

 

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We’re all doing the

best we can

with what we have.

 

Be proud

of yourself

for that!

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Decisions…

Decisions…

You have been guided to make a decision. You have gone about it with reflection and prayer and this is the wisdom, you do not look back.  Under no circumstances do you look back!  You step fully into the decision, absolutely fully, you do not look back.  Because to look back is where you become ill.  This is where you engage suffering, you start to say,’What have I done?  Maybe it was right, maybe it was wrong,’ now you are fragmenting yourself.  Now you are shattering and running back and forth over this bridge trying to have both ways simultaneously, and now both worlds in you will fall apart because you cannot have both worlds.  Now you are living in a world of distrust, completely, instead of in a world of faith and congruence.  You are living in a world where you trust nothing at all.

~Carolyn Myss

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So it is better to take time to consider everything before you make a decision and then stick with what you have decided. Knowing that it was and is the best choice for you after careful consideration.

Being in alignment with what you want.

If you are wishy-washy and go back and forth on decisions, you have divided energy that keeps you flowing back and forth getting nowhere.

That is when you feel fragmented and miss aligned.

So make your decision and stick with it.

Enjoying your life every day…

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Awaken…

 

Awaken…

“If you want to awaken all of humanity,

then awaken all of yourself, if you want

to eliminate the suffering in the world,

then eliminate all that is dark and

negative in yourself.  Truly, the greatest

gift you have to give is that of your own

self-transformation.”

~Lao Tzu

 

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The hardest and most challenging work anyone can do – is working on yourself.

If you are able to change things in yourself, the other things in your life line up in better ways,

because everything is connected.

For example, when you forgive someone, they no longer have a negative effect on your life.

You will very seldom think of that person again because they are no longer your center of focus.

They go “off your radar” in other words, where as before you forgave them, you probably thought of them often. Reviewing their wrongness and infractions over and over in your heart and mind.

Maybe even sharing the story with your friends and acquaintances.

 

What a different feeling you experience after you no longer care about what that person did – either to you or to someone else, because they just don’t resonate on your vibrational scale any more.

You have changed your point of view and they are no longer “in view.”

This new self-transformation has brought you to a different point of view.

Your view has now changed and that in itself will begin to change those around you.

As you, yourself become more tolerant, the whole world around you also becomes more tolerant.

The more loving and kind you become, the more loving and kind the world becomes around you.

Changing yourself is really the only way to change any thing else.

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Despite everything…

Despite everything…

 

You’re so hard on yourself.

Take a moment.

Sit back.

Marvel at your life:

at the grief that softened you,

at the heartache that wisened you,

at the suffering that strengthened you.

Despite everything,

you still grow.

Be proud

of this.

 

 

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Suffering…

 

 


Is suffering really necessary?

Yes and no.

If you had not suffered as you

have, there would be no depth

to you as a human being, no

humility, no compassion.

Suffering cracks open the shell

of ego.  And then comes a point

when it has served it’s purpose.

Suffering is necessary until you

realise it is unnecessary.

~Eckhart Tole

 

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact us here at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Suffering brings about awakening

“For most people,

their spiritual teacher

is their suffering.

Because eventually

the suffering

brings about

awakening.”

~Eckhart Tolle

 

People will only allow so much pain in their life

before they look for something to relieve that pain.

Whether it be physical, mental, or emotional pain, each of these are all forms of discomfort.

Discomfort ignored for long enough eventually leads to varied levels of pain and suffering.

Whether you then seek out traditional medicine, or you lean towards and unconventional method of relief may depend on a lot of things.

Sometimes Tylenol alone takes care of what is ailing you.  Sometimes you have to go deeper into your medicine cabinet, or have to seek out a medical specialist to help you.

Even then, when pain is relieved on a topical level, there are often underlying causes of the condition and suffering remains because of it.

At some point the deeper issue comes to the fore front enough to examine it,

and when resolved – ends the suffering.

At the point where someone becomes “AWARE” of the deeper level, or real issue, and knows what to do about it – (often forgiveness is involved)

allows the end of that suffering to increase their awareness accordingly.

 

 

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact us here at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

 

Copyright © 2017  Linda L Young