Worth having…

The longer you wait for
something, the more
you appreciate it
when you get it,
because anything
worth having is
definitely worth
waiting for.
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In this entitled, throw away society
where everything is instantly at your fingertips,
waiting for something is pretty much a part of the past.
If you want a new girl or boy friend, just go on line and pick one from a dating site
or one of your Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter accounts.
If your current love isn’t giving you everything you want exactly when you want it – just move on to the next…
There are so many more to choose from.
Why spend the time needed to deepen a relationship when you can just instantly get someone else?
The reason may surprise you.
Yes, people can be replaced physically, but what about all the memories shared and the easy way you used to click together?
All the plans you made and the unfinished projects you had in the works.
People do grow apart and when that happens, you have the choice of growing with that person or going another way.
The inspiration that a committed relationship brings is so much deeper and richer than a bran new one where you don’t know anything about the other person.
Of coarse for the shallow self seeking person who only wants attention and a new person to tell his/her old story to,
the idea of moving on is perfect.
A new sense of appreciation comes with a new person. You can share all of your thoughts and dreams and plans with someone who appears to care, rather than changing your old story and becoming a better person your self.
Eventually, though if you can not change your story and basically “grow up”
you will end up chasing the elusive butterfly of love through out eternity.
- Never really feeling grounded and satisfied.
- Never experiencing the solid connection gained from hanging in there and weathering a few storms.
- Never knowing the happiness of sharing your whole heart, mind and soul with another being.
- Never waiting for anything really fulfilling because you are in too much of a hurry to let it develop.
Finding the essence of life and appreciation is definitely worth waiting for.
And it takes as much time as it takes.
You can’t rush anyone else’s personal growth any more than you can rush your own.
Life is a series of events that can lead us to more
and every day we have new choices to make.
Those choices lead us to either more fulfillment or less fulfillment depending on the choice made.
Awareness, consciousness and meditation help us make the choice to grow to a higher level.
Experiencing a higher vibration and a more vibrant energy flow.
We can either expand and explore or shrink up into safety more each day.
The choice is yours but anything that is really good is worth waiting for.
Trust yourself and go for what you really want, no matter how long it takes.
Let the joy be in the journey as you search through the rubble
determined to find your diamond mine and live in your highest potential,
appreciating the life you have now,
while patiently waiting for something more and even better.
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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,
or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.
Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!
Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!
Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…
Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young