Tag Archive | shame

Changes…

“No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There’s only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to do it…” ~ Lori Deschene

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This is not a judgement, or a statement that suggests NOT helping someone.

It does, however, give some things to think about when it comes to the state of enabling people.

Every one makes their own choices and is responsible for those choices.

There are also times when life may bring you to a point of depression and despair where you are really in need of a little help up.

Whether that be emotional, financial, spiritual help, or maybe even all of them at the same time.

Just be careful that you are not enabling someone who doesn’t really want to change anything.

You will just be wasting your precious time that could be used in different ways.

Because people don’t change until they want to for some reason.

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

The butterfly…

The butterfly does not look back at the caterpillar in shame, just as you should not look back at your past in shame. Your past was part of your own transformation. ~ Anthony Gucciardi

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We all have a past and not all of it was our very best, triumphantly wonderful life.

But experiencing that contrast is how we learn what we do want to be like and what doesn’t feel right to us.

From this point of experience we can grow and change to be more like the person we desire to be.

It is all part of the

transformation

so don’t be ashamed of your past.

It was necessary

to bring you to who and what you are today.

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

Don’t look back…

The butterfly does not look back at the caterpillar in shame, just as you should not look back on your past in shame. Your past was part of your own transformation. ~ Anthony Gucciardi

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Enjoy your transformation and be especially proud of your new growth.

Don’t be ashamed of your past because it is what caused you to grow into what you have become now.

New, better, more mature, more passionate, and more caring.

Definitely more full of LOVE and compassion.

Welcome to your new life as a full fledged butterfly…

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.


Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

Your own path…

Your own path…

 

You are not broken

and do not need to be fixed.

Instead, work on

removing the layers

of fear, judgement, guilt and

shame that hold you back

from revealing who

you really are.

You are enough.

Follow your own path,

not the path others think you

should take.  Trust yourself

to know what’s best for you.

#DailyLove

 

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All of us have multiple layers

of life to work on.

 

Some are more difficult for us

to face than others.

 

But our quest to be authentic

draws each of us closer to the real life

we are called to live.

 

Trusting ourselves

and following our own

individual paths.

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

The sacred…

The sacred…


The elders say men should

look at a woman in a sacred

way.  The men should never

put women down or shame them

in any way.  When we have

problems, we should seek their

counsel.  We should share with

them openly.  A woman has

intuitive thought.  She has access

to another system of knowledge

that few men develop.  She can

help us understand.  We must

treat her in a good way.

~TheGreatSpiritGod

 

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Respect should be a mutual thing

between both men and women.

 

The more one can respect another,

the more respect is drawn back to you.

 

If you want to argue with someone,

you will find that if you provoke arguing,

you will get more of in return.

 

If you honor each other you will find

the sacred in each other.

 

Life should be considered sacred,

sharing your love and joy together.

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Your own path…

Your own path…

 


You are not broken

and do not need to be fixed.

Instead, work on

removing the layers

of fear, judgement, guilt and

shame that hold you back

from revealing who

you really are.

You are enough.

Follow your own path,

not the path others think you

should take.  Trust yourself

to know what’s best for you.

Daily Love

 

 

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact us here at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

 

Copyright © 2017  Linda L Young