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Just be human…

When you screw up and you know it,

just apologize.

Allow yourself to be human in that moment.

Don’t make excuses.

For me, it’s not the mistake you make,

it’s whether or not you’re willing to take

responsibility for it.

~ www.stefemaraboli.com

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Everyone messes up from time to time.

Whether you own up to it and apologize for the incident

makes all the difference in the way someone else sees it.

A lot of times, people just move on and try to deny that they hurt someone else,

but that doesn’t take away the damage all ready done.

When you hurt someone else, just man up and take responsibility

for the episode done while being your human self.

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Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!


Do what you LOVE.

Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!


Live – Laugh – Love


Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…


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So important…

So important…

 

“Each time you sit down

to meditate, remind

yourself that this is the

most important thing you

can be doing right now.  It’s

the most important skill you

can develop in your life: the

ability to drop all your

other concerns and focus

on what really is your

responsibility, which is the

shape of your mind.”

~Tbamissaro Bbikku

 

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Meditation is becoming more popular all the time.

In fact, it is one of the most popular topics of today.

 

Everyone is talking about it

and a lot of people are even doing it.

 

It may seem like it is a current fad or fashion

but it has actually been around since bible times.

 

Jesus often left the crowd of followers

to be alone to contemplate and meditate with his father.

Focusing on the spiritual parts of his life.

 

It is also practiced by many prosperous

and knowledgeable people today.

 

Many famous people know the secret of meditation,

or quieting the mind and refreshing the soul.

 

Shaping your mind into what you want it to be.

 

Quiet, peaceful, vital, and clear.

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Taking responsibility…

Taking responsibility …

 

If a person doesn’t

want t0 take responsibility

for the consequences of their actions, they

may try to blame others.  Don’t accept blame or

try to fix things for them when you’ve done

nothing wrong.  They need to learn that if they

want different outcomes, they will have

to make different choices.

~Doe Zantamata

 

 

Blame is one of the most used

escape tactics for people who don’t want

to take responsibility for their actions.

 

They say:

  • It’s not their fault.
  • Someone else MADE them do it.
  • It’s all your fault, not theirs.
  • They were provoked or pressured into it.
  • The devil made them do it.

 

And then they make you feel sorry for them

so that you will “FIX” things for them.

Using your time, money and effort

while they just play dumb and blame you

or someone else for their mess up.

 

Make the best choices you can,

and let others make

their own choices.

 

Don’t blame others for your shortcomings or mistakes,

and don’t let others blame you

when something happens that is not your fault.

 

Live your

best life

every day.

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Dream it – do it…

Dream it – do it…

From dream to reality

 

Name your goal

Accept responsibility

Take positive action

Follow your action plan

Take one step at a time

Stay motivated

Remember that:

You can do it

~LyndaField.com

 

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Take time to figure out something that you really want

and transfer that into a goal.

 

Write it down, listing it in plan format.

 

Take the steps necessary

to complete your plan of action and get results.

 

If it isn’t working out for you easily,

maybe you need to rethink your goal.

 

Maybe it isn’t quite the right time yet,

or maybe you need to add another person to the mix.

 

 

Maybe it is just an experience deemed to take you to the next step,

adding more knowledge to your life and growth.

 

Keep going

until you find all the things necessary

to take your

dream to reality.

 

Time will tell if it is really right for you.

 

If not, you can always dream a new dream

and start the process all over again.

 

Remember that

this is your life

and the only one stopping you

from having all your dreams come true – is YOU.

 

 

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Straightened my crown….


Straightened my crown….

 

After a while I looked in the

mirror and realized…wow,

after all those hurts, scars, and

bruises, after all of those

trials, I really made it through.

I did it.  I survived that which

was supposed to kill me.  So I

straightened my crown…and

walked away like a boss.

 

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Sometimes those who say they love us can change their mind in just one day.

 

They have gone on and on about being patient and kind

and how they would never leave someone who needed them.

They just totally put down anyone who is not completely supportive and has a big heart for the under dog like they do.  They are so convincing.

Until for some unknown reason they get in a weird mood and think that everyone is against them.

They turn around everything you say and make you feel like you did something wrong.

 

I guess there is actually a diagnosis for this behavior.

I’m pretty sure it is a sign of something called bipolar.  A mental disease. Or perhaps psychopathic.  Anti social at the least. Whatever it is – It’s a LOT of drama to deal with.

 

So after having a few of these kind of people in your life and going from surviving their complete switch from love to hate, all in one day, you learn to just take one day at a time and not to take anything too seriously.

 

Everyone does have problems and things that they are working on, but to try and make someone else believe that

their problem is your fault is just plain hurtful.

And they count on that.  Making you feel guilty helps relieve their own guilt.  While they accuse you of cheating on them, they are actually cheating on you.

 

I know how it works, but knowing it doesn’t make me feel any better.

 

Especially when you find out that they have been dishonest in many things.

Time shows the truth and those who lie are exposed eventually.

 

Although they are masters at making excuses and misleading people, the facts show up eventually.

And then their only option is to move on to another target, leaving their victim devastated and shaking their head.

 

Perhaps not meant to actually kill you, they don’t feel any remorse for their actions either.

No responsibility for anything. No actual commitment.

All those promises forgotten and brushed under the rug.

Everything blamed on you.  As if you had planned it in some obscure way.

 

So after all this comes to an end you can either give up or just put on your crown and gently walk away.

Realizing that it takes all kinds of people to make the world go around.

 

And being more careful about who you get involved with in the future.

Taking responsibility for yourself and your own choices.

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Emotions…

 

Emotions…

“Positive and negative

emotions cannot occupy

the mind at the same time.

One or the other must

dominate.  It is your responsibility

to make sure that positive

emotions constitute the

dominating influence

of your mind.”

~Napoleon Hill

 

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People are unaware that their thoughts become things.

They are so wrapped up in the circumstances they are currently in that they don’t see the results they are bringing into their life.

 

You see what is.

You react to what is.

You want more.

How do you get more?

 

If you only dwell on what you are seeing you limit your own growth because all you do is spin around in a circle of the circumstance you are dwelling on.

If it is something negative, you keep adding to the scenario until you want to scream.

It just gets worse and worse in your mind.

If you are talking about it to someone, you can just keep adding more information to the “story” until you become very angry, or even depressed.  It becomes more intense as you add more to it.

 

Can you see how this works?

If you are dwelling on something positive like loving your baby, you are caught up in that emotion.  At that time you just keep adding more positive emotion as you watch her smile at you.  Then she is cooing and snuggling in you arms.

Blowing bubbles and smiling even bigger.

 

You are experiencing positive emotions and expanding on them as time goes on.

 

You can’t experience positive and negative emotions at the same time, because they contradict each other.

 

Most people want more positive, loving things in their life.

 

It is your job to be aware of your own life and seek the things you really want.

“It is your responsibility

to make sure that positive

emotions constitute the

dominating influence

of your mind.”

That is how you end up with a happy, fulfilled, joyous life.

Keep thinking positive thoughts until positive emotions are your dominate emotions.

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

 

 

Take responsibility….

 

 

Take responsibility….

 

When you take responsibility for

your life you

give yourself the

power to change

it.

 

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If you make it your practice to blame others or find excuses for the things that happen in your life, you won’t be living up to your full potential or exuding your greatest power.

Give yourself the power to change anything that isn’t going the very best for you.

It’s all right to make changes.

You might want to re evaluate your preferences and make some alterations as needed.

The more you take responsibility for your life, the greater your power will become.

One day at a time.

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

In what way would you build vitality?

In what way would you build vitality?

What strategies would you use to add to essential levels of vitality and increase your energy?

 

Expectation #5:

THERE’S TOO MUCH RISK.

The physical change that happens on your outside body is genuinely a representation for the mental change that happens inside.

Not just ought your program change the way you look, it is likewise crucial that it change the way you feel about yourself. Each time we purchase the latest miracle pill, workout gadget, or eight-minute strategy, we’re essentially keeping up a key separation from the course of action of a good ‘ol fashioned change and endeavoring to find a lively game plan. This is basically treating the indications and not the causes. It does nothing to improve our feeling of pride, conviction, or individual power.

Unless you start from inside, you’re sure to get yourself right back where you started, essentially more frustrated than before.

We ought to move ourselves to find an answer that joins unbending correspondence—a complete methodology that empowers some incredibly fundamental sections, for case, fitting sustenance and supplementation, cardiovascular and weight-get readied activity, and especially, propping our internal character, our brains.

Your chosen structure should help you set requesting targets, change your old, self-beating assumptions into new, beguiling feelings, and change your cases so you’re constantly going on results that take you closer to your goals.

Review that, you can’t change a lifetime of poor choices in matter of days. It requires in principle—several months, in the absolute best condition. Rest ensured, taking after an answer that blessings you to first change your inside and a brief time allotment later your outside is sure procedure for whole game plan accomplishment.

Accomplishment Strategy #5:

Take after AN INSIDE-OUT APPROACH.

To viably change your constitution and finish your prosperity targets, take after a strategy that focuses first on building up your feeling of pride and building confidence, before you concentrate on your physical make-up, and you’ll more easily make amazing results that will persevere until the end of time.

Obstruction #6:

I CAN’T STAY COMMITTED.

There’s an immense unusualness amongst longings and movement. Furthermore, refinement is duty.dancingsaxiphone

Our commitment to our destinations drives us to achievement, despite in the midst of the hardest times. There is a comfortable relationship amongst motivation and responsibility. Besides, in the event that you’re genuinely committed to revealing a change now, the most ideal approach to manage make them go is to make an inclination convenient significance.

You can do this by appending reasons that are so persuading subsequently astounding you ought to wrap up. So beginning now, set forward the running with sales and consider no under three truly persuading reasons you ought to concentrate on your change goals.

What will this cost me if I don’t change beginning now?

What has this cost me therefore, concerning my prosperity, physical condition, sureness, and centrality levels?

In case I do change now, in what most extreme will I feel about myself?

By what system will this impact my life?

What will I get along these lines?”

Your reactions to these questions will help you get a quick impression of what you’re founded on and why.

Accomplishment Strategy #6:

Distinguish YOUR REASONS.

Doubtlessly express your motivations you are planning to change and make them so affecting you end up being truly given to fulfilling your prosperity targets.

Obstruction #7:

I LACK THE CONFIDENCE TO SUCCEED.

As a not precisely dependable fundamental the accomplishment of our goals may have each one of the stores of being so overwhelming, the brief allurement is to surrender before we even start—which lessens our conviction broadly further. It’s true blue. We can’t get attestation until we make a move. In any case, we would bolster not to make a move until our conviction levels are adequately raised.

 

If you need help raising your energy level, level of vibration, or to become more balanced, happy, and wealthy, contact us at “Linda L Young .com ” for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now!

Live ~ Laugh ~ Love

© 2016 Linda L Young.com