Tag Archive | Let Go

What we have gained…

As we grow older we let go a little at a time: a bad memory, a negative habit, a toxic friend. Bit by bit we shed what no longer serves us until we reveal who we are underneath it all. We soon discover that even though we have gave up many things, there is no feeling of loss. What we have gained in return is far more valuable. ~Emily Maroutain

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.


Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!


Do what you LOVE.

Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!


Live – Laugh – Love


Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…


Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

In the end…

In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you. ~Buddha

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

To do list…

My to do list for today:

  • count my blessings
  • practice kindness
  • let go of what I can’t control
  • be productive yet calm
  • just breathe

~author unknown

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

When you let go…

When you let go…

 

 

When you let go,

you allow someone

to learn from their

natural consequences.

What a beautiful and

courageous way to

express your LOVE…

www.projectforgive.com

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

The future…

The future…

 

Let go

of the pain

and disappointments

of the past.

Embrace and focus on all

you can be, do or have in the future.

~Billy Cox

 

 

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It doesn’t do any good

to hold on to any part of the past

that is disappointing or painful.

 

Sometimes it feels like

justice or justification

to go over things a few times,

and share them with a few friends,

but really it just keeps the past

painful things alive in your present focus.

 

Embrace and focus

on your present

and all you can do or be.

 

Plan for the future

and work towards

doing your best

in every way.

 

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Seeking certainty…

Seeking certainty…

“To seek certainty in a world that cannot provide it, is simply to suffer. Our lives are made up of long strings of beginnings and endings. Some short, some long, but all in ultimate balance. To grasp tightly, white knuckled and fearing loss is unrealistic behavior. It’s often the result of attempting to carry too much. Change is the very nature of life and it’s flow its most dynamic element. I for one, have learned to let go, lighten up and live more simply. To move like the breeze through the forest of life, so my life can be an unburdened emptiness, richly filled with spirit and grace.”

Notes to Myself – Peter Ragnar 🙏

 

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Change is an everyday part of life.

 

What you do with that change is ultimately your decision.

 

You can let change be your friend and accept it,

or you can experience change with fear and allow it to harm you.

 

Change happens anyway,

so you might as well learn to embrace it

and let it be your celebrated path into the future.

 

Seeking certainty only brings suffering.

Let your unmet expectations go

and embrace your NOW.

 

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

We let go of people…

We let go of people…

Sometimes, we let go of people

without even noticing.
You stop thinking about them everyday.
You stop waiting for them to reply to you.
You stop allowing them to take so much space

in your life.
You move on.
You go about your day without worrying

about them.
You stop expecting them to come back with

an apology.
You accept that they are no longer part of

your life.
You just let them go,

as simple as that.

~ Jess,londonfromparis.tumblr.co

Love and Peace,
Josefina – Women Sublime

it any more.

 

 

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The more you think about someone

or something, the more you activate it in your life.

 

The trick to letting someone or something go from your life

is to NOT think about it or them any more.

And this may be extremely difficult because

the more you try to NOT think about something,

the more things come to your mind regarding that subject.

 

So the best thing to do is to just stop worrying about it.

 

Give yourself plenty of time to overcome this challenge.

Memories and life lessons occur over a period of time

so don’t expect yourself to erase all of those things immediately.

 

The best thing to do is to be patient with yourself.

Find ways to REPLACE those old memories with new ones.

Replace that old person with a new one.

Add in more friends, more new experiences, more new memories.

After a while you will have so many new things to think about

that the old memories begin to fade away.

 

And your active part of this process is to let them fade away.

 

Don’t keep going over the old past stuff, reactivating it

in your mind and conversation

if you really want to let it go.

 

Another thing to work on is changing your thoughts about the past situation

from a negative place to a neutral place of being.

 

Instead of going over and over the negative details, just neutralize them into better feeling thoughts.

Remembering that everyone is human and prone to mistakes.

Everyone reacts according to their own inner thoughts, not yours.

Everyone has regrets and wishes to be better understood.

 

And if nothing else works for you,

you may just have to say to yourself;

  • “OH WELL”
  • “Whatever”
  • “It is what it is”
  • “That was then, this is now”

and just keep going.

 

Make your life the life you want to live.

 

Let others live their life too,

and if they don’t want to be a healthy, positive part of your life,

move on

That’s all you can do.

Let them fade away…

It is as simple as that.

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

The only choice…

The only choice…

“Sometimes the only

choice left is to let go,

let it fall apart,

and then watch as the universe

pieces life back together

in a more beautiful way.”

– Melinda Jaye

 

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As much as one person tries to hold something together,

and someone else is in opposition to it,

frustration builds.

There is just no way one person, alone, can keep something like a relationship together when the other person is clearly doing everything possible to pull the other way.

It seems odd, but think about how hard you have tried to please another person in your own life.

You do everything you can think of to show them your love and yet they keep finding ways to push you away farther and farther.

So what is that all about?

It comes down to someone who is very insecure

and the more light you shine on them as far as looking like a “commitment”

the more scared they become.

 

Finally when they feel that they can no longer hide behind their fear

and know that they are about to be exposed, they bolt in what ever way they can.

 

They have failed so many times that they just can’t go there again.

 

They may want to, they may say they will, but reality shows that they just aren’t ready.

 

So all you can do is let it go and let it fall apart.

The universe will reunite you with someone else

who will be more of what you really want and need in a more beautiful way.

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

5 rules for life…

5 rules for life…


  1. Be kind to others, know that other people are doing the best they can with the resources they have.
  2. Be kind to yourself, YOU are doing the best you can with the resources you have.
  3. Never stop growing and striving for more from yourself.
  4. Be willing to let go and FORGIVE, yourself and others.
  5. SMILE, it’s all working out as it’s supposed to.

 

~Nick Ortner   TheTappingSolution.com 

 

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If you are having a hard time letting go of any thing that you don’t want, maybe you should try tapping.

It has a way of disrupting old thoughts and patterns and replacing them with positive feelings and good thoughts.

It is based on tapping on different energy centers of the body starting with the head and moving down the body and then back up, completing the circle.

When you tap on the energy centers or chakras or pressure points, repeating your negative feelings and thoughts and then moving them to a better feeling thought you cancel the negative ones out with the positive, therefore “getting rid” of them.

You can also change your thinking about some thing that has you feeling stuck in it with this same process, becoming the best you can be with the resources you have.

 

You can find more information and the procedure for learning “tapping” by going to

Nick Ortner   TheTappingSolution.com 

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

There comes a time…

There comes a time…

 

There comes a time in life

when you have to let go of

all the pointless drama

and the people who create it

and surround yourself with

people who make you laugh 

so hard that you forget

the bad and focus solely

on the good.  After all,

life is too short to be

anything but happy.

 

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I have spent a lot of time trying to please people and finding ways to try to help them understand me and my point of view only to find out that I was really just wasting my time with them.

They ended up doing what they wanted to do any way, and what I tried to show them really didn’t seem to resonate at all.

So what went wrong?

Was it my misunderstanding or theirs?

Maybe we were just in two different vibrational places and the understanding did not bridge the gap between us.

How can that be?

 

There are different vibrational frequencies among people.

Some people are just determined to live the life of a victim filled with endless drama..  That is where they reside and they don’t know anything else.  They don’t want to be anything else.  They don’t want to know anything else. They are happy where they are in their pointless drama.

So when you talk to someone who is of a different vibration than you are, it is like reading two different books and trying to discuss them in the same conversation.  They just won’t match.

They don’t make any sense because they are coming from two different places.

Two different perspectives.

So you can spend all of your life trying to share your wisdom with someone who is of a different vibration like a victim mentality, or full of drama, or you can just let them learn on their own and move yourself away from the contrast and join with people who do  understand you and appreciate you.

People who help you focus on the good.

 

Let the others go.

 

Everyone is learning their own lessons so if you want to be with people who make you laugh, then that is your choice.

Life is too short to live in frustration, or filled with drama around those who don’t match you.

Just learn your lesson and turn your attention away from them.

move on…

Spending the rest of your life in joy, laughter and happiness…with those who resonate with you.

Because life is too short to do anything less.

 

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young