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A time for healing…

This is a time for HEALING deep emotional trauma. Situations you thought you cleared are coming up again for more awareness. Healing is done in layers. You have to continue to spiral through the same emotional experiences until there is no electric charge left to trigger you. ~ tinybuddah.com

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Do your best to clear the emotional charges left in your life. Only then can you be free to live your best life without returning to the same old feelings of anger and disappointment experienced in your past.

Move on fully and freely by removing all the layers of negative trauma as they appear and trigger you.

Healing is done in layers.

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Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

Feeling judgement…

Feeling judgement…


When you go out into the woods and

you look at trees, you see all these

different trees.  And some of them are

bent, and some of them are straight,

and some of them are evergreens, and

some of them are whatever.  And you

look at the tree and you allow it.  You

see why it is the way it is.  You sort of

understand that it didn’t get enough

light, and so it turned that way.  And

you don’t get all emotional about it.

You just allow it.  You appreciate the

tree.  The minute you get near

humans, you loose all that.  And you

are constantly saying “You’re too this,

or I’m too this.”  That judging mind

comes in.  And so I practice turning

people into trees.  Which  means

appreciating them just the way they

are.

~Ram Dass

 

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As we interact with people of coarse we “Judge” them in a number of ways.

It is our sense of survival to analyze the words and demeanor of anything in our presence whether it is a tree or a person or an animal or what ever it may be.

We are continuously judging and comparing things.

Seeing whether they are safe or if they may want to harm us in some way.

Not only are the raging animals a danger to us, but we know that at times people can also be vicious and deceitful as well.

What we need to practice, however, is being able to accept and allow people to be themselves without being affected by them.

We must somehow be able to hold ourselves apart from the rage of an angry person, and allow them to vent themselves without bothering us.

And that is why trees are so refreshing to us.  They don’t argue or press their opinion on anyone.

They are so very passive and beautiful and they don’t present any kind of danger in themselves.

They are serene and refreshing while being varied enough to maintain interest.

 

People are also varied but not as safe.

They all have their opinions and express them often without your desire or consent.

So if we turn them into trees in our mind,  we are likely to get a few surprises from them as they express their own desires in our lives.

 

Knowing and loving ourselves is the only answer.  

Allowing others to be themselves without being affected by their distractions, is a practice we must continue.

Having a willingness to just be without having control  over anything else.

Being one with source energy.

Letting it flow to you and through you without worrying about anyone else.

 

 

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Highly sensitive…

Highly sensitive…

What people think being

highly sensitive means

 

Being irrationally

over emotional

 

What being highly sensitive

actually means

  • Being extremely observant
  • Being empathetic
  • Having a highly tuned nervous system
  • Caring about everyone and everything
  • Having strong emotional reactions
  • All of the feels ALL OF  THE TIME 

 

When you are highly sensitive, you are sometimes misunderstood by those around you who are NOT very sensitive at all.

They just don’t understand your actions and reactions because they are not at the

heightened level that you are at.

What you see and feel is so much more refined than the level they are at.

It is like two people reading different books and thinking they are reading the same one.

Lucid communication may not be possible if two people are at extremely different levels because

there may be all kinds of misunderstandings between them.

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Law of Attraction part three

Law of Attraction part three;

Is attraction a matter of chemistry?law of attraction3

Maybe. According to scientists, the attraction between animals of the opposite sex is all about chemicals called pheromones. The effect of pheromones in behavior of insects is the most studied to date. It has been observed, at least in some experiments, that pheromones are responsible for communication among same species and colony of ants. The horrible odor released by skunks to ward off enemies is said to be a kind of pheromone. Some species of apes rub pheromone-containing urine on the feet of potential mates to attract them. Some scientists believe that animals (usually the females) such as insects and mammals send out these chemical signals to tell the male of their species that their genes are different from theirs. This gene diversity is important in producing offspring with better chances of survival. The perfume industry has capitalized on pheromones as a means to increase one’s sexual attractiveness to the opposite sex. Animals such as the whale and the musk deer were hunted down for these chemicals.

Lately, scientists are looking into the existence of human pheromones and its role in mate selection. There are many conflicting views in the realm of biology, chemistry, genetics, and psychology. Most scientists would assert that these do not exist, or if they do, do not play a role in sexual attraction between a man and a woman. But new researches such as that conducted by Swiss researchers from the University of Bern led by Klaus Wedekind are slowly making these scientists rethink their stand. Their experiment involved women sniffing the cotton shirts of different men during their ovulation period. It was found out that women prefer the smell of men’s shirts that were genetically different, but also shared similarities with the women’s genes. This, like in the case of insects and other mammals, was to ensure better and healthier characteristics for their future children. But researchers also cautioned that preference for a male odor is affected by the women’s ovulation period, the food that men eat, perfumes and other scented body products, and the use of contraceptive pills.

Does personality figure in sexual attraction?

Yes, but so does your perception of a potential mate’s personality. According to a research conducted by Klohnen, E.C., & S. Luo in 2003 on interpersonal attraction and personality, a person’s sense of self-security and at least the person’s perception of his/her partner were found to be strong determinants of attraction in hypothetical situations. What does this tell us? We prefer a certain personality type, which attracts you to a person. But aside from the actual personality of the person, which can only be verified through close interaction through time, it is your perception of your potential partner that attracts you to him/her, whether the person of your affection truly has that kind of personality or not. This could probably account for a statement commonly heard from men and women on their failed relationships: “I thought he/she was this kind of person.”

So how does attraction figure in relationships?

You have probably heard that attraction is a prelude, or a factor towards a relationship. Most probably, at least in the beginning; but attraction alone cannot make a relationship work. It is that attraction that makes you notice a person from the opposite sex, but once you get to know the person more, attraction is just one consideration. Shared values, dreams, and passions become more significant in long-term relationships.

So should I stop trying to become attractive?

More than trying to become physically attractive, work on all aspects of your health: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Physical attraction is still a precursor. Remember, biology predisposes us to choose the partner with the healthiest genes. Where your emotions are concerned, just ask yourself this: would you want to spend time with a person who feels insecure about him/herself? Probably not! There is wisdom in knowing yourself: who you are, your beliefs, values, and dreams. And do not pretend to be someone you are not. Fooling another person by making him/her think that you share the same values and beliefs is only going to cause you both disappointments. When you are healthy in all aspects, attractiveness becomes a consequence and not an end. As mentioned in the Klohnen and Luo’s research, a person’s sense of self-security matters, perhaps even beyond attraction.

But remember: do these things for yourself and not for other people. Only then can you truly harness your attractiveness as a person and attract someone who is exactly what you are looking for, because they are so much like you in so many ways.

 

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Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now!

Live ~ Laugh ~ Love

© 2016 Linda L Young.com