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You deserve better…

You deserve better…

 

 

Dear girls,

I heard you like bad boys.  Those guys who act like

they don’t care about you, which makes you try harder to

make them like you.  Those guys who wouldn’t reply

to your texts until later on, which makes you wait around

and miss him more.  Those guys who act distant from you,

which makes you try harder to get their attention.  Those guys

who know they can get a lot of girls, which makes you more 

afraid to lose them.  Those guys who would show you they’re

interested one day then act different the next day, which

makes you too confused to make the decision to leave him.

Those guys who will make you fall for them but they can care

less, which makes you stuck and not being able to move on

cause you care too much.  Has anyone ever told you you 

deserve better than that?  You probably have.  And you know

what?  It’s about time you realize that.  If a guy likes you, he’ll

meet you halfway.  Simple as that.  Don’t settle for a bad 

boy when you deserve a good man.

~author unknown

 

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This is such good advice.

I don’t know why we put up with so much disrespect

from “those kind of guys” except that we are too caring.

This also happens the other way around, I know.

It’s not just guys who are capable of this behavior either.

 

Thus the term “love too much” came into being.

 

There is always one who is just “playing” or “doing research” as one guy puts it.

Only capable of a friends with benefits relationship while he makes sure he always has

plenty of time to shop around for the next best deal.

 

But eventually the truth comes out and you find out the hard way that you are the “research“.

 

Then you have choices to make.

How much disrespect are you capable of putting aside or making excuses for

when someone really doesn’t care about you at all.

 

No matter how much you care about them – there is a limit for everyone.

Do yourself a favor and get some respect for yourself.

You determine your own self worth and can decide how you want to be treated.

After all, what kind of a future could you ever have with someone like this?

 

You would be better off to move on and find a REAL man, or WOMAN.

Someone who treats you with the love and caring

you are giving and seeking.

 

 

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

 

 

 

 

Decisions…

Decisions…

You have been guided to make a decision.  You have gone

about it with reflection and prayer and this is the wisdom,

you do not look back.  Under no circumstances do you look

back!  You step fully into the decision, absolutely fully, you

do not look back.  Because to look back is where you

become ill.  This is where you engage suffering, you start

to say, “What have I done?  Maybe it was right, maybe it was

wrong,” now you ae fragmenting yourself.  Now you are

shattering and running back and forth over this bridge trying

to have both ways simultaneously, and now both worlds in

you will fall apart because you cannot have both worlds.

Now you are living in a world of distrust, completely, instead

of in a world of faith and congruence.  You are living in a

world where you trust nothing at all.

~Carolyn Myss

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Your choices…

Your choices…

 

Everything you do is based on the

choices you make.  It’s not your

parents, your past relationships, your

job, the economy, the weather, an

argument or your age that is to blame. 

You and only you are responsible for 

every decision and choice you make.

Period.

~author unknown

 

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There seems to be a lot of reasons

and excuses for the way things are.

 

Although tragic things do happen

and  sometimes they have lasting results,

they  are a result of choices made.

 

Don’t let an incident that happened

many years ago effect your life today.

 

Make the choice to be free from your past

and do whatever you need to do

to ensure that decision.

 

Make each new day

a new starting place

with choices that give you

the life you want to live.

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Focus on what you want…

Focus…

 

Focus on what you want…

 

Complaining continues

to create the vibration

of what you don’t want.

Today, take your focus

off of what is wrong and 

focus on what is right

and how you deserve things

to be.  Put all your love,

energy, mental power

and decision making towards

what you want and do

not entertain thoughts

that are to the contrary.

~Jackson Kiddard

 

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Put your energy and focus

on what you want

and watch it come into being.

 

Keep your focus on what you want

and don’t accidently slip back into the complaining mode,

the things you don’t want,

or you will get more to complain about.

 

This is serious business.

 

If you can hold yourself in LOVE

and other good vibrations,

they will increase in your life.

 

It is a matter of changing your thoughts

and actually calling in more good things

through good thinking.

 

It is never to late to try this,

no matter what your past has been like.

 

You might want to start small like imagining

a parking space right in front of a place you shop.

 

If you keep thinking it, and believe it to be, it will happen for you.

 

It happens for me all the time,

and maybe I will have to drive around the row once

so someone else can pull out for me, but that’s okay too.

 

I still end up right in front of where I

want to be.

 

Life just keeps getting better and better

the more I learn to FOCUS on what I do want…

 

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

 

A better past…

A better past…

 

 

Complaining continues

to create the VIBRATION

of what you don’t want.

Today take your focus

off of what is wrong and

focus on what is right

and how you desire things

to be, put all your love,

energy, mental power

and decision making towards

what you want and do

not entertain thoughts

that are to the contrary.

~Jackson Kiddard

 

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

 

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Decisions…

Decisions…

You have been guided to make a decision. You have gone about it with reflection and prayer and this is the wisdom, you do not look back.  Under no circumstances do you look back!  You step fully into the decision, absolutely fully, you do not look back.  Because to look back is where you become ill.  This is where you engage suffering, you start to say,’What have I done?  Maybe it was right, maybe it was wrong,’ now you are fragmenting yourself.  Now you are shattering and running back and forth over this bridge trying to have both ways simultaneously, and now both worlds in you will fall apart because you cannot have both worlds.  Now you are living in a world of distrust, completely, instead of in a world of faith and congruence.  You are living in a world where you trust nothing at all.

~Carolyn Myss

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So it is better to take time to consider everything before you make a decision and then stick with what you have decided. Knowing that it was and is the best choice for you after careful consideration.

Being in alignment with what you want.

If you are wishy-washy and go back and forth on decisions, you have divided energy that keeps you flowing back and forth getting nowhere.

That is when you feel fragmented and miss aligned.

So make your decision and stick with it.

Enjoying your life every day…

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

10 Ways to Move On

10 Ways to Move On

  1. allow yourself to be HAPPY
  2. be confident and trust yourself
  3. welcome change and go with it
  4. be courageous and take a risk
  5. ditch the guilt
  6. know that you deserve the best
  7. make a decision and follow through
  8. smile in the face of adversity
  9. remember that you are good enough
  10. be yourself

~Lynda Field Life Coach

 

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This is all such great advice.  If you are feeling hurt and abandoned, these tips for moving on may take a little time to receive, let alone practice.

Take your time.  Don’t try to rush anything.  Self love needs to grow and be developed before you are ready to start moving on at all.

Once you are ready, you can start with the easiest one and move through the rest as appropriate.

Perhaps you can start with a smile, and accept the fact that your ARE good enough.

Keep reading positive advice and start practicing feeling good again.  Don’t completely isolate yourself from the rest of the world.  Keep stepping out one little step at a little at a time.

Pretty soon you will be back in the swing of things where “All is well” and life goes on…

Good luck – You ARE good enough!

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Every decision…

Every decision we

make and action we

take is a statement

of exactly how

much we love and

value ourselves.

~Lynda Field Life Coach

 

This may sound a little self centered at first glance, but the more you think about it, the more sense it makes.

Every thought we think is a reflection of the love we have for ourselves, and for others.

If we are in a place of anger, or fear, the decisions we make are going to be much different than if we are making them from a place of love, and contentment.

So the more you can tune yourself to a loving vibration, or thought pattern, the more loving your decisions will be.

Can you remember a time when you were in a really bad mood?

Perhaps it was a bad day all around.  Someone said something to hurt your feelings and then the dog knocked over your favorite vase and it shattered into small pieces all over the floor.

Maybe the phone rang before you had the vase cleaned up, just to tell you that you weren’t needed at work any more.

At this point you may not feel loved or valued at all.

But still, it is an inside job.

You can’t let a bad day or something someone says throw you off your game.

You must realize that perhaps some changes are in order and you are still a very valuable, lovable person.

Maybe you need to love yourself a little more, taking more time to organize and dog proof the rest of your house.  Maybe you actually need to spend more time valuing yourself by looking for a job or career that better suits you.

Everything happens for a reason.

Let love be your guide through life and see how wonderful it can be…

Loving yourself and loving life more every day.
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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Your choices…


Everything you do is based on the

choices you make.  It’s not your

parents, your past relationships, your

job, the economy, the weather, an

argument or your age that is to blame.

You and only you are responsible for

every decision and choice you make.

Period.

~Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

 

 

It is hard at times to except that this is the truth.

We have conditioned ourselves to blame others,

in fact,

to blame anyone else

so that we don’t have to see a fault in ourselves.

The more we blame others, however,

the farther we keep ourselves away

from our own truth and inner being.

We must turn inward,

accept that we are human

and as human’s we are prone to making mistakes.

We must make “mistakes” in order to grow and find clearer preferences.

To find the clearification  we have to keep sifting and sorting until we find whatever feels better to us.

During this process, we make choices, and possibly mistakes.

As we refine our preferences we  expand.

So let the life lessons of the past show us what we do want

and what we don’t want

rather than labeling them as bad choices, or blaming someone else.

We choose our mates, and we choose to let them go when they become unacceptable

to our growth, or for other reasons.

Then we have the choice to pick someone who is more suitable to our new self.

Life goes on and on as we make new choices and clearer decisions every day.

 

 

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Your vision…


Live your dreams now, to any degree that you can.

With every purchase.  Every decision.

Every hello and goodbye.

Every assignment.  Every conversation.  Every meal.

Every morning, afternoon, and evening.

Re-frame every thought, word, and deed as if your life

was already as you’ve always dreamed it would be.

Die to yesterday’s illusions

and be reborn to the truth of your vision.

~Mike Dooly

 

 

 

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young