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It is never wrong to Love.

It is never wrong to Love. Circumstances may mean something or someone is not meant for us but the feeling, the actual Love, is always right, and always meant. We are here to Love. We are Love. So the more we Love, the more we remember our reason for being and the truth of all of Life.  to-love

Even if loving and giving your love to some one has left you feeling less than loved, you are still capable of great love now and in the future.

Every failed relationship can be a part of our education.

How ever painful at times, the after glow leaves us a little wiser than if we had never loved at all.

Just don’t let a failed love life make you bitter.  Bitterness will steal your joy and cloud your future if you don’t take care of it  and learn from it.  We all wish we could “do over” a few things, maybe take back a few words spoken in anger or change the outcome of a misunderstanding or two.  But the truth is – we can’t.  You just can’t go back.

Oh it’s a great idea if you can patch things up with someone.  One who is able and willing to forgive and forget.  One who is wanting the same thing you do, peace and harmony. Love and trust. Respect.

But generally, people who make a habit of misunderstanding you are on a different mission.   For you to think that they care about you just because you care about them, will leave you crying every time.  I’ve learned this the hard way.  Since I have so much to offer someone else, I tend to wear rose colored glasses when it comes to affairs of the heart.  Always wishing and hoping – giving and loving… one more time…

But sadly it turns out the same way with me being a little bit older and wiser.  Pulling everything back together and starting over.  I take time to reflect and hopefully grow to where I know more of what I do want by being aware of what I don’t  want.

Going through the stages of grief:

  • Denial
  • Anger
  • Bargaining
  • Depression
  • Acceptance

After acceptance, I know that I am still a very loving person and although I thought my choice was a good one at the time, I realize that it was just another lesson on my path to finding a deeper understanding and learning to LOVE myself at the level where someone else will also love me and not want to hurt me.

Life is a process…  It’s still good to LOVE no matter what the outcome may be.  I just keep finding more things to love and appreciate every day.  I’m determined to keep becoming a better person who is happy and fulfilled no matter what anyone else is doing.  That is my path.  That is my mission in life.  Sometimes I have to actually look deep for the good in a day, but the more I practice finding good the easier it becomes.

  • The more good people I have around me.
  • The more good times I have.
  • The more money I receive.
  • The better I feel…

AND – The better it gets…

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