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True joy…

7 THINGS TO GIVE UP IF YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE TRUE JOY.

  1. Complaining
  2. Blaming others
  3. Negative self talk
  4. Dwelling on the past
  5. Resistance to change
  6. Needing the approval of others
  7. Doubting God’s plan for your life

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Do your best to stay positive and stop complaining.

Be responsible for your self and your own choices. Nothing is someone else’s fault. Good or bad, your choices lead to your consequences.

Be flexible and unresistant. Change is necessary for growth in life.

Stay in the present, the past is past.

Approve of yourself and love yourself instead of looking to others for your self approval.

Have faith that what God has started in your life – he will finish.

Trust and allow your life to flow into true happiness and joy.

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Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2019 Linda L Young

The power to break you…

The power to break you…

 

 

“I finally realized that my own self worth is not tied to any one else’s thoughts, words, opinions, actions or inactions towards me and that, totally eliminates the want or need for approval or acceptance from anyone other than myself.

Yes, the only person who needs to openly Love, approve of and accept me, is me.

I have learned to accept all the parts and pieces of me I was conditioned to either hate or hide, and Love all of me, unconditionally.

The very moment that you come to this realization, is magical. It’s the very essence of truly being free.

We bury ourselves alive, don’t we? We get so hell bent on making sure that everyone around us is happy, taken care of, that their needs are being met and that they’re pleased. Somewhere in the midst of all that, we lose ourselves.

Keep in mind though, that we’re never too lost, to find our way back because one day, and that’s the day the magic truly begins… But, one day we realize that all the Unconditional Love we’ve given, every bit of it, we can also give to ourselves.

So, you reach into your own Soul and piece by piece, brick by brick, layer by layer you let go of all of the Soul-Doors that aren’t yours, of everything that isn’t Uniquely you.
You let go of all the anger, hurt, guilt, betrayals, resentments, rejections, mistakes and everything that someone else told you to be.

Forgiveness, that’s what that is. Forgiveness is Freedom… YOUR Freedom.
This is the part of Soul-Digging, Heart-Searching, Healing & Recovery that leads right to your Passionate Purpose and Spiritual Growth.

This is the part where you stop being afraid of the magic of your own Light.
You see? When you reach into the Sacred Space of your own Soul, you get to the core of who you truly are, all that is authentically, uniquely and Divinely you and even though you’d buried yourself alive, you still are and always have been there and no one can take that from you unless you allow them to.

No one has the power to break you, but you. The second you realize this, you’ll never give anyone that much power over you ever again.

When you unleash and release the Magic and Madness, un-bury and unearth the Divine Gift that is you, you’ll then board up that dungeon and lose the key, because in that moment you realize that you were not only the gatekeeper, but also the sole owner of the key.”
©2017/AmandaFernandez

 

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Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

Affection or approval…


“You don’t need anyone’s affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn’t actually about you. It’s about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don’t have to internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of you — it’s something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter. You’re allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You’re allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise.”
―Daniell Koepke of

 

This is such a deep and thoughtful statement from Daniel Koepke.

And in itself has so much already profoundly declared.

Insecurities abound in all of us.

It is only the most mindful and thoughtful of all who can let others be themselves with out offending, judging, or being offended.

So if you feel rejected or abandoned by another, realize that it is their own insecurity flaring up at you, not anything that you have actually done yourself.

Enjoy and empower your own love and self worth.

 

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact us here at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

 

Copyright © 2016 Linda L Young