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Attachment vs love…

Attachment vs love…

 

Try not to confuse “attachment”

with “love”.  Attachment is about

fear and dependency, and has

more to do with love of self than

love  of another.  Love without 

attachment is the purest love

because it isn’t about what others

can give you because you’re empty.

It is about what you can give

others because you’re already full.

~author unknown

 

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So many people think they are in LOVE

when all they are in is lust.

 

They don’t know what real love is

and they don’t really care either.

As long as they are getting what they want and need

they aren’t concerned with what they have to give back.

 

So that makes their relationship more of an attachment

than any kind of real LOVE.

 

Being attached out of fear and dependency

rather than truth, honesty and caring for someone.

 

Feeling self need rather than caring about someone else.

 

Many people are like this,

feeling empty and looking for someone

to help them feel better and fuller.

 

They get into one relationship after another – looking for LOVE

because they aren’t able to love themselves.

 

They don’t know the difference

between love and attachment.

 

 

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Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

 

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Attachment…

Attachment…

Try not to confuse attachment with

love.  Attachment is about fear and

dependency, and has more to do

with love of self than love of another.

Love without attachment is the

purest love because it isn’t about

what others can give you because

you’re empty.  It is about what you

can give others because you’re

already full.

~Facebook.com/positivity.vibrations

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Be full,

be

LOVE.

Pure and simple.

Just be yourself and let your light and love shine out

to the world around you.

Always be the best you can be

and live your best life

without attachment.

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If you need help raising your energy level,

or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,

or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,

and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Results…

Just because you don’t see results

after a day or even a week,

DON’T give up.

You may not see changes, but

every smart choice you make is affecting you

in ways you’d never imagine.

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Making smart choices always brings CHANGE.

Sometimes you don’t see the results for a while,

but eventually they do show up.

Sometimes they show up in mysterious ways,

or ways you never thought would happen.

Even ways you couldn’t possibly imagine.

So DON’T GIVE UP!

New results are on their way…

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or vibration, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information,
or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day,
and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!


Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2018 Linda L Young

Set them free…

Good Now.

Happy this moment.

We all inherently want to be understood, but the truth is there will be those who stumble into our lives and just camp out for awhile.

They appear to care, echo our words and capture our heart but at the end of the day they just don’t get us.

This often invites misunderstanding, confusion and dashed expectation. We find out rather painfully that we have shared our most intimate self with a stranger, someone who no matter what they say just cannot be where we are.

So what do we do when we feel a betrayal of our being? Love them where they are. Set them free to learn their lessons. Be grateful for what you learned about yourself because of them. Give them the understanding you did not receive and wish them well as you move on.

The most important lesson is knowing and loving yourself. Remember, too, it is an amazing gift to be with those who are compatible with us, who share commonality, who don’t need explanations, who love us because and in spite of who we are.

These folks are rare. Bless them for being part of your journey. Tell them how much they mean to you. We learn from all those we meet…the friends and the “want to be” friends who have limited capacity.

Love yourself enough to invite in and honor those who share in your joys, who love you for who you are. Release with compassion those who can’t, don’t or won’t value you for who you are. Above all be your own light in this world. Love as you want to be loved.

Have a blessed day. Jody Doty ©2018

 

 

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Good words and very well said.

If you need more help in letting someone go here is a video that shows everything you need to know.

Best of luck…

 

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If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

 

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

 

Remember how far you have come…

Whenever you find yourself

doubting

how far you can go,

follow your own path

just remember

how far you have come.

Remember everything

that you have faced,

all the battles you have won,

and all the fears you have overcome.

 

Being fearful can be devastating.  It can hold you back from following your hopes and dreams.  It can make you sick with worry, and can make you feel all around cold and disconnected from others.

Doubting yourself can also effect you the same way.  It just holds you down as if you were a captive somehow.  Unable to move in any direction.

Extreme doubting can turn into a form of inertia.  Not moving at all.

Inertia is tough because it is as if you get stuck in place and keep playing the same old bunch of negative self talk – over and over.  Like being stuck in the mud somewhere.  Held down and kept down.

If you are ever in doubt, think about the awesome things you have completed so far.  The many battles you have faced, won, and overcome.   Even little accomplishments are still steps on a forward path.

Just keep moving forward.

You really do need to have faith in yourself.

One step at a time…  Maybe even one little tiny baby step at a time.  Just keep going.

If you are having a really hard time right now, there are many things that can help you feel better. One thing you could do to feel better is to put on your favorite music.  Maybe a favorite song from the past, or present.  Something that really speaks to you and lifts up your spirits.  Or if you are a musician, you could get out your guitar, key board, or drum set and just start jamming away.  Maybe call a friend to play with, or just plan a session together.  Anything you can do to to get your self  moving and going, is a great start.

Life is short – if you keep practicing appreciation for what you do have and what you have accomplished, it will be easier to find more things to be thankful for and then to take the next step in life.  Having gratitude always leads to more and better things.  It can start as an affirmation and then become a  practice, and end up becoming a life long habit.

 

 

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me here at “Linda L Young.com” for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

Copyright © 2017 Linda L Young

 

Transformation…

Transformation…

transformation
What is transformation?  Transformation is change.  We are transforming every day.  As we learn, grow, and age, we transform  mentally, spiritually, and physically.  Transformation is not always easy…Sometimes we go through a metamorphosis that is very painful, like that of a caterpillar changing into a butterfly.  It is a death of sorts to go from one stage to another.  Dying to self.  Dying from the old as we change and transform into the new.

As we look up and search for our spirituality we are reminded of our childhood beliefs and what they mean to us.  After a number of years of searching, testing, and asking, we change our initial beliefs as we grow and learn from life, and others. Seeking meaning and purpose, we advance into our new selves, confident, self assured and yet full of wonderment.  Never forgetting the little child inside us, questioning the life that lies before us.  Learning again as our new path emerges.

We are beautifully flawed with hidden blessings as we grow into magnificent eccentricity. From the simplistic embryo or indiscernible pebble on the beach, to greatness with a place of honor and grace.  Full of hope, we never give up.  Although the path becomes long, windy and full of twists and turns scattered with brambles and bushes at times, we continue to prevail.  Change is possible we think to ourselves.

Our hearts enhanced and filled with magnanimous love, we learn to shine our lights brightly for the world to see and follow.  We have arrived alive and well.  We have transformed despite all odds.  We have grown and become that which we were born to be.

Life can be amazing.

Although many times friends turn out to be foes, and things don’t always go the way you want them to.  Learning life lessons is what life is about, experiencing adventures and discovering secret desires.  Having as much fun as you can every day.  Turning disasterous days into the best day ever is the blessed results of finding the answer to the road to successful transformation. Who is to say what your path to transformation will be.  Sometimes it takes the rain along with the sun to bring out the vibrant colors of the rainbow.  It takes diversity to change from a tiny, little, weak person into a strong, sufficient, successful adult.

There are no short cuts to life.

No one is fortunate enough to be excluded from the pain of attachment, only learning to let go solves this issue, where you can find peace of mind within yourself, no matter what circumstances are presented.  Although we would like to skip the painful lessons, it just isn’t possible.  Life has it’s good and bad trials, tribulations and lessons for everyone, presenting transformation possibilities for all.

 

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Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now!

Live ~ Laugh ~ Love

© 2016 Linda L Young.com

 

Be in the moment …

Be…
Be in the moment...
Be in the moment.
One breath at a time.
Breathe in ~ breathe out.  Enjoy each breath as you breathe it.

Don’t think about any thing else right now.  If there are other things going on in the background, put them on hold for a little while.  You can come back to them whenever you need to.  For now, just think about each beautiful, long, full breath as you breathe it in.

Feel it ~ as it fills up your lungs, opening your chest and abdomen to it’s fullest capacity.  Be in the moment. Exhale ~ blowing out your breath.  And as you do, release any negative energy or thoughts that come to your mind.  Just get rid of them by breathing them out ~ one distracting, unproductive thought at at time.  One breath at a time.

See your breaths ~ filling your mind’s eye with them, as you relax and become content with where you are at in this very moment.  Right now.  Right where you are.

Relaxed, comfortable, happy.  Just breathing in ~ breathing out… enjoying the moment. Right where you are, being in the now.  Feeling better and better as you close off your surroundings, still focusing on your breathing.  Relaxing and enjoying life.  Going deeper and deeper in to your own inner world.  Safe and secure.  Hopeful and happy.

Feeling the love from with in now, opening yourself to it, and allowing yourself to feel it as a beautiful ray of warm, comforting sunshine, as your love becomes even deeper and stronger.  Become totally entrenched with the warmth of this comforting, compassionate, consuming love now, as your breaths slow down even more and you become even more aware of your perfect inner world.

All is well.  All is wonderful.

You are wonderful.

Life is good as you allow yourself to just “Be” in the moment, smiling gently and softly to yourself.

Living your dreams, one day at a time.  Full of love.  Full of life, you slowly come back from your inner journey.  Aware of your current surroundings now.   You open your eyes, feeling so alive and so much better and happier. Content, and ready to move on with your day…

I hope you have enjoyed this little meditation, or bit of descriptive writing.  Please take time to comment on what has helped you the most and share it in the comment section below. I appreciate and welcome your feedback.

If you have any questions or concerns about whether this is a healthy practice for you, please contact your current professional health care provider for a diagnosis.  This is only meant to be a helpful, relaxing exercise, promoting individual good health, peace, and harmony.

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

Copyright © 2016 Linda L Young

Release your resistance…

Release your resistance…

                 and go with the Flow of life…

Release your resistance

Don’t you get tired of people saying “Go with the flow”?

It seems like it is so over used and sometimes just plain meaningless. Doesn’t anyone understand that you have things to do?

“I am so busy,” you say, “and so pressured to get all of the things done that I need to do.” Obligations, responsibility, moving ahead in life.  That is what is really important isn’t it? Doing more and more.  Accomplishing as much as you can possibly do every day.  It’s all about productivity. You need to get your stuff done, not go with the flow.   Crazy, you say.

There are even so many motivational seminars to show you how to do more, get more done, easy but meaningful steps to create the life you want, not go with the flow of life.  If you are not doing something, it won’t ever get done right?  What about those weird people who think that they can just dream things and they will come about.  Where do they get that kind of thinking?  You wonder.

If you have resistance to life, or any part of what is going on in your life, you may end up feeling stressed or possibly fearful and painful.  At one point you are attracting something and then you are just as quickly pushing it away.

If you learn to just let things be, or allow them to come about in their own time, and in their own way, you won’t feel any stress with what you are doing, or feel any fear or pressure.  Try living with ease and grace instead of  pushing your way into situations.  Let things come to you and let your desires flow from within you.

Lower and release your resistance so that you will be able to attract what is best for you right now, and then be able to allow it to produce the best results possible.  Every thing in it’s own perfect time.

Be a beautiful flower that attracts honey bees with your sweetness.  One with pretty petals just sitting there sparkling in all it’s glory, unfolding with grace, waiting for the right time for nature to bring it to it’s completeness.  No hurry, no strain, just blooming into it’s fullness for everyone to admire ~ with no resistance at all.

Just going with the flow… of Life.

 

I hope you have enjoyed this little bit of descriptive writing.  Please take time to comment on it if you can, and share in the comment section below.  I appreciate your feedback.

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

Copyright © 2016 Linda L Young

Finding your power…

Refreshing sea

Looking at the sea is so inspirational.

It can be powerful, strong and mighty. It can also be calming, refreshing and serene.  You can get so many different feelings from spending time at the ocean.

From the tranquil turquoise shades of the sky to the transparent greenish blue hues reflected in the water.  There is some variance in colors and yet it is also so much the same.  Beautiful shades of blue.  The waves flowing in and out with fine white sprays of water capping the tops of each and every one as the wind carries them towards the shore.

The stones are solid and add a strength and weight to the lingering landscape.  Worn and rounded by the continual pounding of the waves.

You may even see a crab scampering sideways across one of the rocks, quickly darting into a hole between them, hiding from the perpetual predators nearby.

The air is softly blowing a tropical breeze through the scenery, cooling the surrounding shores from the hot afternoon sun.

It is easy to feel good, and powerful, while standing by the sea side empowered by the current surroundings.

Practice this good feeling and focus on the power and strength you are feeling.  Keep it growing and getting stronger and stronger.  Allow the surroundings to enhance you as you dwell on all of the beauty you are in right now.  Stay in the moment and enjoy the place you are in.  Look within yourself as you celebrate each refreshing breath.  One breath at a time. Breathe in the great powerful energy, and then breathe out any negative energy  that you may find as you exhale.  Again breathe in.  Visualize breathing in the bright white light, or bright yellow light as you inhale.  Blow out any old stagnant energy that comes to your mind’s eye as you exhale.  Let any thing go and float away that doesn’t feel empowering and enhancing to you as you stand boldly by the sea, taking it all  in, experiencing the whole creative process.  Allow the fresh salt air to fill your lungs and encourage you as you expand with enthusiasm.  Experience your new found power and allow your self to enjoy each moment bringing you peace and harmony, strength and love.

Life is so good and can keep getting better and better as you practice feeling good and allowing more good to come to you.

All is well.

 

I hope you have enjoyed this descriptive writing.  Please take time to comment on it if you would, and share it in the comment section below.  I appreciate and welcome your feedback.

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, need a blessing, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

Copyright © 2016 Linda L Young

By being yourself…

By being yourself, you put something beautiful into the world, that was not there before.By being yourself..

Like the sun that shines so brightly through the trees, illuminating everything in it’s path, YOU are here to shine your light and show the world why you were born. Each of us has a mission in life.  A purpose for existing and being a part of the human race.  It’s not enough to merely exist and take up space.

Oh no, not you.

You are here as a unique light of designed energy to share yourself with the rest of us.  Singing your song. Sharing your uniqueness with the world.  Why else would you be reading this?  You were destined to.  It is time to start shining your light to the world.  Don’t you think?

We all have different talents.  Some are blessed with artistic abilities like painting and drawing.  Others have musical skills like playing the piano or strumming the guitar. While others write music, composing phrases and sequencing notes into a melodic symphony.

Some people have better communication skills than others,  and even communicating well can be a talent. Often you start with a raw talent.  Then that talent is developed over a number of years and enhanced  by education or special training to bring it to a higher level or completion.  You can always learn more, adding to what you already know, or practice your skills and become better at what ever you are doing right now.

Life is a process of learning and growing.

Just don’t put off doing what you really want to do.  What you are called to do.  No matter how hard it may seem, you must find a way to put yourself out there.  Become your best self and start SHINING today.

Don’t let what others say define who you are.  It’s your life, after all.  If they could be you, they probably would be.  So many times people are jealous of others and they put people down because they feel intimidated.  It really has nothing to do with you.  It’s how they feel.  So don’t let what other’s say influence what you know in your heart to be true.

Be yourself, your beautiful self.  You have come into the world to put something here that was not here before, and can not be without you.

You are AWESOME!  And don’t ever forget it.

 

I hope you have enjoyed this little bit of descriptive writing.  Please take time to comment on it if you can, and share in the comment section below.  I appreciate your feedback.

If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, or are interested in learning more about creative writing, contact me for more information, or join our mailing list for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love

Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

 

Copyright © 2016 Linda L Young