“No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There’s only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to do it…” ~ Lori Deschene


This is not a judgement, or a statement that suggests NOT helping someone.

It does, however, give some things to think about when it comes to the state of enabling people.

Every one makes their own choices and is responsible for those choices.

There are also times when life may bring you to a point of depression and despair where you are really in need of a little help up.

Whether that be emotional, financial, spiritual help, or maybe even all of them at the same time.

Just be careful that you are not enabling someone who doesn’t really want to change anything.

You will just be wasting your precious time that could be used in different ways.

Because people don’t change until they want to for some reason.


If you need help raising your energy level, or vibration, contact me at “Linda L” for more information, or for ongoing, upcoming events and classes.

Remember to Live life to the fullest – Every day, and be compassionate to everyone, including yourself!

Do what you LOVE.
Be happy,
and keep doing the things that make you happy!

Live – Laugh – Love
Leave the past in the past and enjoy the day you have right now…

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